Let Go !!

There are times when we push ourselves so hard to wanting something we cant have and eventually realizing its time to let go. This is something everyone goes through someway or the other. But what does letting go actually mean? Does it mean to loose your conscious and be sad all the time?? Wondered upon it for a while and here I am scribbling the answers to it.

The most common emotion which comes during this phase is Loneliness. Some get so used to it that they start living with the same for the rest of their lives. Loneliness is just another emotion where you let the tears flow; feel it completely but eventually be able to say.." that was my moment with loneliness and now m gonna keep it aside and m ready to let go to experience other emos as well". When life gives you the signs to move on..it doesn't mean to forget, ignore or think about it forever. It never tells you to live your life in regrets with sad and empty feeling; neither does it convey emptiness or defeat. So misunderstanding the term and dwelling your self in memories of past is a mistake. Yes we do get hurt, but that doesn't convey that we block our memories and be lonely all the time.

Instead to Let go is to have an open mind, cherish the past memories and accepting things. Its more about learning and to be thankful for the experiences which once brought you the feelings of joy, cry, laughter and love. Its about growing up. To let go is always having the courage and strength to accept the change and move ahead. At the end it isn't about wining or loosing, its about setting yourself free with a hope for a better tomorrow.

So the bottom line is if you wind up being left out only because you think that holding on would make you strong..then think again...sometimes its letting go...!!!

PS: To Let go and to think that there are a hell lot of good things the universe has to offer has made me happy and helped me a lot; hope this helps someone else too ;) :)

The Silent Speaks !!!

I recently read an article about silence and thats how I am here sharing the same slience.

Silence - A moment in your life where you run out of words. The moment where you show your feelings not through words, but by just remaining silent.

There are so many moments in our life, where we had remained silent for some seconds. If you recall, those silence always made some noise deep inside our hearts and it is a fact that these silent moments are the ones which we remember the most.

Ever wondered why? May be coz that slience conveyed something, may be it conveyed a feeling.

Recalling some of those feelings like....

the moment you go out on your first job and look back at your parents --- the Silence of concern for your leaving and happiness for your independence.

the moment you get unexpected good marks when no one even thought you could --- the Silence of surprise.

the moment the HR calls you and tells you "Congrats, Your hired" --- the Silence of excitement and hopes.

the moment the boy/girl who like you say nothing but only smile at you --- the Silence of love.

the moment when your leaving a dear friend to station and bid a bye-bye, the slient pouding of heart-beat --- the Silence of separation.

the moment when a small child looks and smiles at you for no reason and you smile back --- the Silence of innocence and juvenileness.

There are so many such special silent moments in our lives after which we think, that why I didnt speak...May be coz that silence was understood. There was no need of anythning else.

They say Silence speaks many languages...or may be feelings...feelings of joy, grief, happiness, enthusiasm, hope, expectations !!! These feelings were just carried away by a simple silence...the moments of which are always treasured.

Ever wondered those instance where you are alone and you find yourself starring at your roof. Those moments of self-talk, where your listening to your heart, thinking, deciding on to something. These are the moments which will actulally create your fate.

So next time you find yourself silent, try to feel the emotion your heart is trying to convey, listen to its desires and always be in touch ..... in touch with your true self !!! :)

What do you want to do before you Die??????

"Every man dies – Not every man really lives.” ~ William Ross

Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take..but the moments you use to make it special. I had this thought quite for a while...that there are so many things hidden, so many things we want to do in this life....in this only life....!!!!

For me there are heaps of things I wanaa do. Curious to know about others, I queried some of my friends. Some of them took time coz they never gave it a thought...some of them were shy enough to reveal their secret wishes...and some of them were proud to answer and had a huge list like me...:)

Here goes the list....This list may have things which we have already done and some of them which we want to do....!!!!!

So go through it..and find out....what are the things you wanna do before you end your life.

It can be a very simple wish to a very silly wish, but you know if it gets fulfilled your life would be much more happening and remembering !!!

1. Getting a tattoo.

2. Spirits in air...Sky Diving.

3. Doing a Social Cause which you like and not just thinking about it.

4. To be in love.....deeply....unconditionally...and truly...!!!

5. Learn to play at-least one musical instrument.

6. Dancing with the your soulmate in rain.

7. Go on a long drive.

8. Get featured publicly for an achievement.

9. Get drunk and dance like mad.

10. Watch a hilarious movie with your friends and laugh your stomach out.

11. Dont limit ur singing to bathroom itself....Open your throat on the roads..with friends..in front of the enitre world.

12. Visit at least one of the wonders of world.

13. Ride an elephant.

14. Bungee jumping specially in Macau.

15. Have one life long friend.

16. Live your dream and fulfill the wish-list.

If you have any of other wishes, Have pleasure in commenting the same. :)

Live the LiFe you've Imagined.

Dosti - To my Related Souls !!!!!

I remembered the lines of a movie "Udann" which i love the most. Here it goes....

choti choti chhitrayi yaadein

bichhi hui hai lamho ki lawn par

nange pair un par chalte chalte

itni dur chale aaye

ki ab bhul gaye hai ki jute kahan utare the.

aedi komal thi, jab aaye the

thodi si naazuk hai abhi bhi

aur naazuk hi rahegi

in khatti meethi yaadon ki shararat

jab tak inhe gudgudati rahegi

sach, bhul gye hai ki jute kahan utare the

par lagta hai ab unki jarurat nhi...

Now a days everyday of my life leads a way to office and back home again. My office is pretty cool though. My boss is very simple and not strict..(lucky me). All of them are friendly around there, but still felt some things missing..Like the fun...the laughter..the jokes...the craziness....actually my friends...!!!

For me the people who enter my life always have a special postion in my heart. My friends covered a huge part of it. It is a well known truth that no matter what...some day you have to separate from each other in terms of many emotional things. I had this feeling of insecurity...a feel of losing...losing some important relations which i treasured a lot..

After long today I spent some times with friends...I can describe this day as the day when i didn't have the number of counts on my laughter and enjoyment. At this moment I realized I was wrong in the part of losing. Life may be changed for all of us a bit though yes!!!! but still the love, the affection, the relation, the bond is still the same..Nothing is lost...!!! :)

Friends have been the most important part of my life. My mom used to say that my life revolves around friends....and now i relaize she was true to what she said. Everyday i missed every part of my friends. I was happy with my surrounding but still deep in my heart i wished to go back..back where it never mattered what you were and how you were.. back to time where every day meeting each other was imporatant...back to all those crazy times...back to friends..

It is these friends which make my life so special..it is these friends who make my city worth living in....It is them who make it worth happenning. Just a request to the ones reading this...pause for a moment...and find the joy u had with your friends...find the ones who actally make your life beautiful.. :)

So this one for all my friends out there..

Dosti ghum batne mai hai....dosti saath hasne mai hai..

Dosti woh choti muskan mai hai...Dosti har ehsaas mai hai..

Dosti har subha mai hai.....dosti zindagi mai hai....

Dosti tumse hai...Dosti humse hai...!!!